Friday, May 05, 2006

sister outsider.

so this morning, i was sitting on the couch watching a few minutes of the re-run 11:00 p.m. sportscenter before i had to actually get ready for work. at this time of the day - a.k.a. before 8:00 a.m. - i am not the sharpest tool in the shed. it takes me a little while to process things, especially if i'm also in a state of pre-coffee ingestion. so, when i heard neil everett say the following to segue into commerical, it took me a few minutes to get sufficiently annoyed:

"hey, you've waited this long, why flip over to the Girls Next Door now? sportscenter's Top 10 plays are up next."

um, excuse me. i don't watch Girls Next Door, because i have no interest in playboy bunnies, the playboy mansion, or playboy anything. i am a chick, and i like sports. you are a sports network. in 2006, it fricking frustrates me that you assume if i like the Top 10, i must like boobies too. but i have my own, thanks. what i don't have are fun highlights of good dunks and great catches, so please just pass them along without the wink, wink, nudge, nudge. thank you.

and you know what? all you people out there ready to jump on the Hysterical Feminist train right now, save it. save your breath about whatever blahdy-blah percentage of men make up the regular sportscenter viewership. save your breath about my "over-reacting." and certainly save your breath with the "it was just one off-handed comment, you can't expect every broadcast of every sportscenter to to be sexism-free." no, i can't, and i'm not saying that. i'm just taking a few seconds out of my morning to note that women sports fans still have moments where they're slapped in the face with their continuing "outsider" status. and that's frustrating. especially before 8:00 a.m.

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Wow, hysterical much?

(ducks)

Just kidding. If the shoe was on the other foot, something like that would make my head explode too.

Anonymous said...

Are there no girls who watch ‘the girls next door’? Is sexism the only thing that could be at play here or could the two shows share a large segment of their audience regardless of gender?

kate.d. said...

sorry, hetherjw, i meant to reply yesterday but shit got crazy. are there any girls who watch 'girls next door'? god, i hope not. but i dunno, i'm sure there are some.

without hard numbers on both shows viewerships, it would be impossible to do a good analysis of what that comment was 'about'. and even with numbers, there's no real way to know. my general point was that regardless of intent, it's offhanded comments like these that can make women feel outside of a discourse they'd like to be included in.

god, i just ended a sentence in a preposition AND used the word discourse without irony. i need more coffee.

Anonymous said...

"used the word discourse without irony"

Um, yep. And you were applying it to talking about sports.

Anonymous said...

Kate,

Though I am sure there are some girls who do watch girls next door this was meant more in the spirit of cheeky good humor.

Of course it was "only boys watch sports center" at the heart of his comment. Sexism yes. But the implausible 'sexism apologist perspective' is always fun.

kate.d. said...

i gotcha, hetherjw :) but it's actually also a fair point on a technical level, so i had to give it its due!