tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17027941.post114090332523290044..comments2023-12-29T01:04:14.708-05:00Comments on a cat and twenty.: friday cat blogging, take me to your leader edition.kate.d.http://www.blogger.com/profile/09967162934828397188noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17027941.post-1141009205418100492006-02-26T22:00:00.000-05:002006-02-26T22:00:00.000-05:00esg, i emailed you,and your points make total sens...esg, i emailed you,and your points make total sense. but i forgot to say that i also enjoy that you have the original number of r's in you email address's "grrrl". why only use two r's, when you can use three? :)kate.d.https://www.blogger.com/profile/09967162934828397188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17027941.post-1140997840903244012006-02-26T18:50:00.000-05:002006-02-26T18:50:00.000-05:00There's a link on foxnews for HollabackThere's a link on foxnews for HollabackAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17027941.post-1140991915002219162006-02-26T17:11:00.000-05:002006-02-26T17:11:00.000-05:00Generally, I don't feel the need to clarify what I...Generally, I don't feel the need to clarify what I write on my blog and while I understand your reaction to my post, I do feel the need to make a statement.<BR/><BR/>The overall point of the post (and apparently I didn't convey this clearly enough) is about learning to live w/ someone else. <BR/><BR/>You see, spiceboy is extremely involved in the wedding planning process--he's actually more involved sometimes than than I'd like him to be! <BR/><BR/>The thing is (and I've mentioned this in previous posts), he and I have completely opposite ways of performing tasks. I'm impatient. I like to get things done quickly. When I start something, I like to finish it right away. <BR/><BR/>Meanwhile, spiceboy is a master planner, mulling things over in his head for a REALLY LONG TIME before actually executing them. This someimes means that it takes him longer to perform a certain task than I would like. <BR/><BR/>So you see--my way of doing things drives spiceboy bonkers b/c I'm impulsive. spiceboy's way of doing things drives me nuts b/c he's so damn careful about everything. <BR/><BR/>But just b/c I ask him to do something and he agrees to do it--that doesn't mean I should expect him to do it exactly my way. And vice versa.<BR/><BR/> What you said in your comment is exactly right--he's a grown man. And even though it drives me nuts, he's within his rights to do things his own way. <BR/><BR/>And even though it drives him nuts, he lets me do things my own way. <BR/><BR/>It's meeting in the middle and finding a place where we don't drive one another bonkers that's the tricky part.<BR/><BR/>Like I said in the post, it's about learning to live with one another--learning that just b/c we don't do things the same way, that doesn't mean we're doing it wrong. It's been an interesting learning experience for both of us, and we talk about it quite often.<BR/><BR/>Okay, sorry I've taken up so much comment space. If you'd like to continue this discussion, feel free to email me at everygrrl76@yahoo.com.<BR/><BR/>As always, thanks for dropping by and for your insightful observations. I really do appreciate it!east side girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14416126234428923593noreply@blogger.com